Our Most Special Read Aloud - Day 8
Wednesday, October 24, 2012 at 5:00AM
There are certain books that stay with you forever.
So much of the POWER of reading aloud is the emotional connection between book characters and ourselves. It is remembering what was going on in our lives while we were reading a book. It is knowing that reading a certain book can almost make the world seem "right" in some way.
A cherished book (especially if it was a gift from a loved one) is a sign that you are loved. People often write in the front of books they give as gifts because they want you to know what the book means to THEM. Sometimes we can communicate our deepest thoughts through a book.
Books, then, give our innermost thoughts a voice.
The Velveteen Rabbit is my favorite read aloud. My copy was given to me by my parents in 1980 when I was nine years old. Each time I pick up the book I can still hear my mother reading it to me. I can see my pink and white flowered sheets on the bed where she would sit and read. I can remember the spot in the white bookshelf the book would occupy.
Earlier this year my son lost a little friend of his in a tragic accident. Ellie was six, full of sunshine and personality, and died suddenly one Friday afternoon. While we knew that "Heaven Just Got Better", the days that followed were difficult for our community. (If you feel inclined, continue to pray for Ellie's family - it is a long and difficult journey they are on.)
All my son knew was that a sweet little girl he had spent four years in preschool with, and proclaimed he would "marry and buy her a blue truck and a pink cell phone", was no longer in our world. He knew we were all sad and didn't quite understand the finality of her death.
To continue as normal the next week wasn't possible in our homeschool. I felt the need to hold my children close. Thoughts of Ellie's mom were with me nearly every waking moment. We couldn't focus on "school". We turned to books - a constant source of comfort.
I had been saving reading The Velveteen Rabbit aloud to my youngest (he's 7) for just the right time. Well, then was just the perfect time. We read it early one morning, snuggled on the couch.
We read aloud a lot that week. I think it was the only real "school" we did, and I was ok with that. Sitting together, woven together by marvelous stories somehow helped us that week.
Read alouds are GIFT. They are a gift you can give each and every day of your child's life. They are a gift that will stay with them forever, and a gift they can pass down to their own children.
How providential, then, that during The Ten Days of Reading Aloud series on my blog that we visit our favorite local bookstore and this is on the front sidewalk:
Throughout our town we have horse statues. We've enjoyed seeing all of the different themes on them. As we approached the bookstore the kids ran up to this one and noticed it was from The Velveteen Rabbit. My daughter said, "Oh, it's the old skin horse." Amazingly, we were all quiet and just admired this horse.
“Real isn't how you are made,' said the Skin Horse. 'It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.'
We spent a good hour in that bookstore, looking at books we hadn't seen before, but also picking up a lot of books we had read aloud together. Our read alouds have given us SO MANY memories.
Do you have a most special read aloud? I'd love to know what it is!
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Reader Comments (5)
Well, I don't know that I have any special read alouds ...although I'm going to think about that for a little bit while I write this. I did a lot of reading when I was young, but I don't necessarily remember reading aloud in our family.
I can share a story of a very real teddy bear - I think we all have one. But this one is still with me. He's lived in a box for most of the last 15 years (marriage). But Maybe it's time to dust him off and take him out of his box and give him a proper home again. He's the only bear I ever had at that level. I had many bears ... many animals ... but he's the constant through it all.
As for read alouds .... Perhaps I will have to go back and simply say that we had this old picture Bible. The hard-cover thick one with the light brown cover that it seems almost everyone had. I can't remember (as in bring pictures to mind) sitting and reading from it. But whenever I think about that book I am surrounded by a feeling of warmth as if many happy memories are in that book. And I know from looking at the book that it is a very loved book and it has been read quite often.
Now I want to dig out my copy of Velveteen Rabbit and read it again. I still remember listening to it on a record player at my elementary school laying on the floor in the gym.
I have never read the Velveteen Rabbit but DD9 has and it's one of her favorites. She likes to listen to it or read it on her kindle.
Somewhere in my stash of old pictures I have a picture of my daughter, Mary Prather and myself sitting on the steps of the Collier County Library reading. I remember Mary reading Charlie Wonkas Chocolate Factory when she was very young. It was incredible. Reading is such a connection between parent, grandparent and child. My grandchildren are far away now but everytime I walk into a bookstore I find books I think they might like, and memories flow.
I don't have any memories of being read to as a child (sad, I know). But I have made lots of memories with my children reading aloud to them.
The first book I remember was the "Love you Forever" book. My 11yo son still talks about how sweet he thinks that book is. There was another funny picture book called "The Day the Goose Got Loose" that we enjoyed when they were younger.
I'm just going to type off the top of my head here...
Boxcar Children Series
Henry Huggins
Beverly Cleary books
"Understood Betsy"
"The Great Turkey Walk"
I could go on...
:)